"Now that the shine of novelty has worn off these apps, they aren’t fun or exciting anymore. They’ve become a normalized part of dating...If you just sit on your butt and wait to see if life delivers you love, then you have no right to complain." The Atlantic
"Do consumers want to find a special someone or just anyone? Internet dating used to mean filling out questionnaires to match interests and culture. With sites like Tinder, Bumble and Hinge, it is all about who is nearby and available." New York Times
"Online relationships seem to be vulnerable to a bump in the road during their early phases, where people are tempted by that allure of something better when trouble comes along." Men's Health
"If online dating has underscored anything, it's that we're maybe too much of an aesthetically-driven society. Swiping left and right based on a picture means, of course, you're missing out on the surprises—the people you may not have a knee-jerk physical reaction to but are more of a slow burn." Marie Claire
"At the end of the day, we're designed for human contact, not a computer screen." CNN

About

The BEVY is an intensely personal matchmaking service that handpicks and vets qualified candidates to constitute their membership. Greta Tufvesson and Nikki Lewis launched The BEVY with a combined nine years of experience. After building one of the largest matchmaking firms in the country, the two identified a need for introductions within the social and sophisticated crowds of New York City, Los Angeles, San Diego, San Francisco, and branched off to create The BEVY. We provide unparalleled service in our selectivity, style, and confidentiality. No client request is too difficult.

Greta Tufvesson

Co–Founder

Born in Manhattan, the daughter of a restaurateur and a ballerina, Greta Tufvesson has spent the last twelve years working in the fields of fashion, hospitality and brand consulting. She spent five years with the luxury subsidiaries of LVMH followed by a period in marketing and sales with Andre Balasz, and Spain’s top hotelier, Kiki Sarasola. In 2010, Greta helped launch New York’s first introduction firm with an edge. Greta introduced matchmaking to the sophisticated social crowd of New York City – a concept that had never really been accepted in this community. She developed a boutique aesthetic, and guided the brand’s voice and message. Inspired by her former companies’ growth and influence, she has decided to shape her own vision with The Bevy. Greta resides part time in each of New York and Los Angeles.


  • What is your idea of perfect happiness?

    A glass of tignanello, plate of cheese, beautiful boat with loved ones at sunset.

  • What is the quality you most like in a man?

    Integrity.

  • What is the quality you most like in woman?

    Grace peppered with passion.

  • What do you most value in your friends?

    Loyalty.

  • What is that you most dislike?

    Arrogance.

  • What is your motto?

    “Life is about adventure.”

Nikki Lewis

Co-Founder

Born in Beverly Hills, Nikki Lewis, an NYU graduate and the daughter of two lawyers, started her career in luxury branding and celebrity PR. Her experience in these areas led her to pursue the craft of connecting people at one of New York’s top matchmaking firms. After four years, she perfected the art of the introduction and landed the title of Vice President at the young age of 24. Nikki’s contagious personality, extensive network, and unwavering instincts and dedication, led her to become widely recognized in the industry. Nikki continues to build and sustain her influential network that will continue to grow within her own venture - The Bevy. Nikki resides part time in each of New York and Los Angeles.


  • What is your idea of perfect happiness?

    Lying by the infinity pool in Cabo with my loved ones, laughing until our ribs hurt, and racking up a ridiculous bill by the end of the day!

  • What is the quality you most like in a man?

    A solid moral compass

  • What is the quality you most like in woman?

    Versatility – the ability to get her hands dirty one day, and attend a gala the next.

  • What do you most value in your friends?

    Honesty and loyalty

  • What is that you most dislike?

    Closed-mindedness

  • What is your motto?

    “The only true sin is to make the same mistake twice.”

Jackie Korey

Project Manager

Born in New Jersey, Jackie spent her childhood on the beaches of the Jersey Shore before going on to study Government/Law and English at Lafayette College. After graduation, Jackie moved to NYC and started a career working in creative brand development and marketing in the beauty industry. At 24, Jackie has experienced her fair share of dating app failures which, coupled with her outgoing personality and passion for helping brands grow, led her to join The Bevy in 2017.


  • What is your idea of perfect happiness?

    A meal outside on a gorgeous summer evening with the ones I love, laughter- and plenty of Rosé!

  • What is the quality you most like in a man?

    Compassion

  • What is the quality you most like in woman?

    Confidence

  • What do you most value in your friends?

    Loyalty

  • What is it that you most dislike?

    Entitlement

  • What is your motto?

    Life is either a daring adventure- or nothing.

Emma Rothschild

Director, SF

A Marin County native, Emma grew up in the Bay Area before completing degrees in Communication and Film at USC. She began her career in Los Angeles, working in television at William Morris Endeavor, 21st Century Fox Television, and Shine America. She then moved to New York City to help the Soho House expand their international footprint, before returning to San Francisco in a business development capacity at Twilio prior to its IPO. Ever the super connector, Emma's passion has always been bringing people together - whether to launch a hit television show, build a high-growth company or find a great new relationship. Her charisma, emotional intelligence and honesty have made her a natural in the art of matchmaking. She's recently joined her friends Greta and Nikki to launch The Bevy in San Francisco.


  • What is the quality you like most in a man?

    A strong sense of self.

  • What is the quality you like most in a woman?

    Confidence.

  • What do you value most in your friends?

    Vivaciousness paired with kindness.

  • What is it that you most dislike?

    Narcissism.

  • What is your motto?

    Be somebody who makes everyone feel like a somebody.

  • What is your idea of perfect happiness?

    Good wine, good food, good friends.

Dana Heintz

Business Development: SF

Born in Portland, Oregon, Dana Heintz was raised on hiking and camping in the beautiful Pacific Northwest. She then studied Economics at the University of San Diego before embarking on her career in San Francisco. In 2015, Dana started at a financial software company within the realm of client service. She recently transitioned into a new marketing-oriented position, executing Keynote Events for Salesforce. This role focuses on ensuring executives are successful during these powerful presentations, while organizing large-scale events to elevate the Salesforce brand. Her traits of being detail-oriented, customer-focused, and having a vivacious personality are easily transferrable to The Bevy venture. Dana resides in San Francisco when she is not traveling the world.


  • What do you most value in your friends?

    Loyalty, ambition, zest.

  • What is your idea of perfect happiness?

    Wine tasting with my dearest friends at our favorite winery in Sonoma, CA.

  • What quality to you most like in a woman?

    Fearlessness.

  • What is it that you most dislike?

    Incongruence – Practice what you preach.

  • What is the quality you most like in a man?

    Thoughtfulness.

  • What is your motto?

    Old ways won't open new doors.

Services & Membership

Services

  • A Full service concierge to plan all dates. Our experts style all dates to our clients’ preferences, as far as activity, or even diet restrictions, to make for a seamless first date.
  • Detailed feedback after every introduction.
  • Consistent coaching and mentoring.
  • Invitations to our private events.
  • Any needed assistance from our team of stylists and health experts. Upon acceptance, we will decide what is best for you. This may include a physical training and diet plan, a closet makeover, personal shopping excursions, and more.

Membership

Male members pay a membership fee. Fee is disclosed once in-person consultation is complete and accepted.

Female members receive complimentary membership.

Confidentiality

Confidentiality is our highest priority, and is non-negotiable for most of our clients. We will never share photos, last names, or name of workplace without verified confirmation.

Partners

Natalie Decleve

Stylist

Natalie Decleve is a stylist and lifestyle correspondent based in New York City. She spends her time styling the men and women of NYC, and contributing to various media outlets including Guest of a Guest, Metro NY, Darling Magazine, Self magazine, W magazine and more. Natalie believes that having a healthy body from the inside is just as important as having a healthy self image on the outside, and her site, Natty Style is where she shares her tips and inspiration for living a naturally natty lifestyle.

Gayatri Madhvani

Life Coach

Gayu is trained through the Certified Coaches Federation and then later with World Coach Institute. She aims at giving you the tools and skills you need to empower you to make better decisions and gain more understanding to make better choices may it be in your health, life or relationships. She offers a unique multi-cultural perspective to my clients in a non judgmental, quick solution orientated environment. Visit our website, life Coach Gayu.

Contact

The Bevy works strictly through referral with rare exceptions. All consultations are complimentary and are handled in person. After meeting, we use our Proust questionnaire, instincts, and network to set up unparalleled matches. Please submit the following information and you will be contacted within 24 hours by a member of our team.

For more information, please call us. 646.410.3760